What is the unspoken rule of relief society sisterdome? You do NOT go after the same guy! Women I think are born with the instinct to loathe all other women who are even potentially going after the same guy as them. Different girls have different ways of going about this...they may give the cold shoulder, talk badly about the other girl behind her back, or even become her best friend (keep your enemies closer, right?). Unfortunately, this basic instinct goes against what we as sisters in Zion stand for, and that is to love our relief society sisters. How can you love someone your biology dictates you should hate?
Why is this such a hot topic of singles ward drama? I really believe that it is often due to the lack of available guys. Most of the guys either make the girls feel uncomfortable or they hang out in their own little bubble of guy friends and don't talk to girls. This leaves a limited number of available, not scary, guys who actually talk to girls. I don't think guys realize that impressing a girl is not that hard...really you just need to talk to them. Do not act so interested as to scare them, but in general, if a guy will just talk to girls, inevitably at least a few will become interested. It is in this way that a man becomes the hot commodity, the scarce resource, the carcass being fought over by a herd of lionesses...and really, what guy does not kind of enjoy that?
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